February 13th: I’m celebrating my first milestone; completion of month one in my Year of Gratitude project.  I’ve posted every day except one, and only in a few cases did I resort to just a sentence or two.  What have I learned so far? I can show up when I put my[…]

One Month Milestone

February 12th: A storm cleared out yesterday leaving in its place a warm, sunny, spring-like day.  The Pear trees are in full white bloom; the hills, usually a fire concern, are covered in a lush emerald green carpet; the trickle of water in the normally bone dry creek twinkles in the sun.  A perfect day for[…]

A Sunday Afternoon

February 11th: I am grateful to be back home after a few days of displacement for termite fumigation.  I know without a doubt my cat is grateful to be home too.

Home

February 10th: Today I am grateful for the thoughtfulness of my sister-in-law.  Yesterday, out of the blue, she sent photos and a nice email regarding an Apple tree that we had planted in her yard last October.   Two trees were actually planted, one in honor of my Dad and one[…]

Honoring a Life

February 9th:  I’m a bit adrift this week.  The displacement caused by the fumigation of termites in my house is the likely culprit.  Or a side effect of binge watching Gilmore Girls on sleepless nights; my brain suffers from the constant chatter of all the show’s female characters talking as[…]

Building a Foundation

February 7th: This year’s creative expression is writing.  In addition to my daily gratitude writing I’m participating with a group of friends in a 52 weeks of journaling project.  Every Sunday a new prompt is posted and we respond in any form we wish — writing, art work, photos, etc.[…]

The Entire Package that is Me

February 6th: I suspect “here” will soon become an overused blog title.  But really, there are some days where just being here, present in my life, is what I’m grateful for.  Life, as in the package, and not one specific event or person.

Here

February 5th: I am thankful to live in a country where I can speak my mind.  A friend reminded everyone in yesterday’s meeting that it is our right as citizens to write letters and call our representatives.  This statement gave me pause.  Free speech is a right I for one take[…]

Free Speech

February 4th: I have always wanted to do more.  Be more involved in my community, be more involved in our democracy, do more to contribute to the well being of others.  It’s been this idea in my head for as long as I can remember — almost another life that I’ve[…]

A Call to Action

February 3rd: Sometimes gratitude is a very intentional exercise of turning a negative into a positive.  Sometimes gratitude is turning inward and reflecting on the basics, the things in our life we take for granted or do without any recognition of their importance.  Nothing screams “write about me” today so[…]

Showing Up in Yoga

February 2nd: Don’t laugh, but I’ve been studying numerology.  It’s part of a self-directed initiative to expand my horizons and it’s the information in this course that I’m actually thankful for today. Numbers 1-9 each have personality types associated with them making numerology not much different than the personality types[…]

Numerology

February 1st: There’s no better pick-me-up than helping someone else and today I needed just that.  A sympathy letter composed today to my recently widowed best friend is the most difficult thing I’ve ever had to write.  Afterwards I felt as if I’d been punched in the stomach, winded by the grief of also[…]

Adding a Little Sunshine

January 31st: I’m grateful for the opportunity to use my developing art skills to make someone a personalized gift.  I’m setting it free tomorrow.  I hope she likes it!

Making A Gift

January 30th: One year ago my husband and I took my Dad and stepmother to McDonald’s.  In my world this was a significant event.  Dad’s broken hip, followed by an unsuccessful pin and a desire to faithfully research options resulted in 7 months of extremely limited mobility and a desire not[…]

Memories of McDonald’s

January 29th: Gratitude is being overshadowed by anxiety and concern over current events.  I’m struggling to find something I’m grateful for today.  But after returning home from a nice family dinner with my cousin’s family I realize that I have something to be very grateful for.  My husband and cousin[…]

Civil Sharing of Ideas

January 28: This is the time of year for Mourning Cloak butterflies and today there are two flying around my yard.  Butterflies are one of my simple joys so I am always grateful for them.  They remind me to stop and enjoy the life that surrounds me.  They bring a smile[…]

Mourning Cloak Butterflies

January 27th:  I have a group of friends with a desire to be held accountable for their 2017 goals, a desire to be here on this day in 2018 and say “I made this happen for myself”. Goals are big when you’re young — get an education, find a job that is rewarding[…]

Accountability Partners

January 26th: Our large pool barren backyard is both a playground and natural food source for raccoons, in fact I’m not sure which did greater damage to our yard last year, water restrictions or raccoons.  While we don’t encourage them by leaving food out, we do accept their presence.  The grass[…]

Mating Raccoons

January 24th: Today I am grateful for cameras and my love of photography. My memory has never been first-rate.  It’s a frustrating trait, a trait I attribute to multi-tasking and difficulty living in the present moment, a trait that prevents me from being a viable Trivial Pursuit or Jeopardy contender. There[…]

Cameras

January 23rd:  Today I’m just thankful to be here.  While it sounds like a tired cliché, it does not feel like one.  And while it implies an impossibly challenging overwhelming day it was not.  It’s as simple as that.  I’m just happy being here, in this moment, sitting quietly at[…]

Here

January 22nd: Parking lot manners leave much to be desired these days.  There’s nothing more frustrating then not once, but twice going through the cycle of looking in your rear view mirror, then over your right shoulder and over your left shoulder only to find someone right behind you as soon as you[…]

Parking Lot Courtesy

January 21st: Many of my friends here and in other parts of the U.S. are attending the Women’s March today, an event whose mission is to promote our rights and honor the diverseness on which our nation is founded.  Many of these women are from my generation and have never before[…]

Brave Women

January 20th:  I am grateful to live in a nation where for most of my life given hard work, courage and heart, I could be whatever I wanted to be.  I thank all those whose vision and sacrifice made this possible and those whose example lights the way.

Anything is Possible

January 19th: This morning I visited a gravesite that I have not been to in 41 years, a gravesite of a dear friend that I lost when we were both teenagers.  I was there to visit his mother, Bobbie.  Bobbie extended a hand of friendship to me, a teenage girl, at a[…]

Embrace Life

January 18th: I am thankful for the man I married 30 years ago today and for the life we share. My husband has an uncanny knack for finding parking spaces and greeting cards and today’s card sums it up perfectly — On the road of life it’s not where you go[…]

30 Years of Unconditional Love

January 17th: This house, full of tile floors and large single pane windows is colder inside than outside in the winter.  But there are a few windows that for a brief period of time on a winter day project the sun into the house.  Sun spots.  Today I am chilled to the bone.[…]

Dining Room Sun Spot

January 16th: Most mornings I read a random page from Julia Cameron’s Prayers to the Great Creator.  It’s uncanny how many of the selections speak to what’s on my mind.  The desire to have a relatable voice and write about it every day for a year puts this blog project – A Year of[…]

Julia Cameron p. 204

January 15th:  I gaze upon this house that I love in gratitude.  It’s middle-aged and needs work; yet its imperfections remind me that something that is not perfect, like myself, can still be full of life, beautiful, strong, comforting, a safe haven.

My Imperfect House

January 14th:  I give thanks today to those who planted the blogging seed, to the universe for its synchronous presentation of this idea, and to myself for paying attention. To my friend and sister whose idea it was for my online women’s group to embark on a 52 week journaling[…]

Blog Inspiration

January 13th:  Today I am thankful for rain.  Rain is rare here and it has rained most of this week.  Our plants, suffering from a year of water restrictions, are thirsty. Rain had made them new and fresh. Rain has washed away the grime of daily living. Rain has sweetened[…]

Stillness in Rain

January 12th: I am thankful for my husband, who cooked dinner for me last night even though he was tired. He made it possible for me to serve dinner at the homeless shelter and still come home and eat a healthy meal together with him. Had he not I would’ve raided the[…]

Dinner is Served